We are live, people. It is your boy Breezy here with Fitness Profits. Excited to be back with a great episode here for you all. Something I talk to my students a hell of a lot about, but also something I've been a huge advocate for over my last however long in business. About four years ago, I was in a position where I'd be going through these pangs of anxiety. I'd get really confident, and then the next day I'd feel really scared about things. I started to chat to one of my friends Dileep, and he did a course through the Art of Living and actually teaches breathing and meditation stuff. This was the time in which I really figured out that breathing was such an important thing. To know this is basically like our physiology determines our psychology, so if you're breathing more than eight breaths per minute, that's a physiological state of anxiety. If you have anxiety you don't have confidence. If you don't have confidence, you don't have the ability to grow your business, push it forward and get it to where you want it to be. Today I'm going to talk about how you can actually bubble wrap your confidence every day so that you walk into the day with absolute determination and confidence, courage to pursue and push forward with your dreams. To many people allow the negative spiral of thoughts in their mind to deter their efforts, to take them away from what is going to get results in the business. It looks like this day to day. You wake up, you start to instantly check social media or emails, or respond to clients, or check your messenger. You get in this spiral of, "Okay, I've got to work, I've got to do it." It's this scarcity and urgency and anxiety around making sure that you're looking after clients or you're doing stuff to get more clients. I literally used to wake up, pull my laptop out and start working. I literally used to work until I'd go to sleep. Around about six years ago, I don't know if you've ever had this happen to you before, but I was lying in bed and it was the second time that I'd spent a night with Danielle. It had happened once before about four weeks prior. I was at Danielle's house, and stayed over, and in the middle of the night I woke up. Literally my whole body was paralysed. Completely still, completely shook, but my eyes were open and I was trying to speak, and I was like, "Mm." Then Danielle literally shook me, cuddled me, and then I snapped out of it. I did a bit of research, and apparently it's something that's pretty common with people who are overstressed, overworked, and I think it's called sleep paralysis. I'm not the person who's going to try and diagnose this, but it's something that I've struggled with that I know a bunch of other people have too. I started on this journey of, "Okay, I've got to sort this shit out because I'm waking up, working, going to bed with a laptop on my chest." It just wasn't healthy. Like I said, my buddy Dileep was on at me all of the time. "Look Chris, you've got to come to this course, it's amazing. You need to do this." Dileep had personal struggles in the past, he'd had personal challenges, he had addictions. He turned to breathing meditation and it changed his life completely. Meditation breathing is kind of stigmatised, but also the buzz thing right now. That's not really what this episode today is about, it's more about how you can use that as part of a routine daily to protect your confidence. I ventured on this journey of breathing stuff, and started to really go deep into it. Every single day I'd start with breathing. Gradually what I'd start to do was add things to my morning ritual. I woke up, I'd make sure that my phone was out the way for at least the first two hours. The first hour of my day was wrapped around me protecting my confidence, protecting my mind. Setting myself up for a great day. There's one thing that you need to be aware of. You can start the day and end the day, and have total control over the way that you wake up and over the way that you go to sleep. Anything else in the middle, something can come along. A client could leave, or somebody could come and take shots at you. You could get a bunch of hate today. Some situation could happen that throws you completely off your game, but as long as you start the day and end the day, book end the day. It was Darren Hardy who first got the concept of book-ending the day in the great book called The Compound Effect. As long as you book-end the day, start and finish it in a certain way, you have total control over how you begin the day, and how you wake up the day after to then tackle the day ahead. Shit can go completely crazy in between, but as long as we have a point at which we can stop the craziness and a point at which we can start the day in a positive way, I think you'll notice a huge shift. I wanted to share with you today how I protect my confidence every single day with my morning ritual. I wake up, the very first thing I do is put a coffee on. Those that don't know me, I'm a bit of a coffee geek. In fact, when I travel places, the first thing I do is look for coffee shops that have independent, local coffees or roasters that are different to your generic coffee places. When people say they're into coffee, they might be. I'm into roasters and certain roasteries, and I look and hunt out for new roasteries all of the time. My favourite is V60 or Aeropress, that's my favourite preparation method. I could do a whole episode on coffee one time, maybe I will. Basically, I'm searching out for the best coffee places everywhere I go, get the beans, but that has to be the first thing I do in the morning. I don't know why, I love it, the whole preparation of it. It takes about three to five minutes. I wake up, and then I've got a nice hot awesome coffee. After I've made a coffee, I then grab out a book and I'll read about 50 or 60 pages of a book every single day. Usually a chapter or two, at least, every day. Do about a book a week in total. Then I'll read some kind of stoicism. A great book by Ryan Holiday is 365 Days of Stoic Meditations. I think that's the title, don't quote me. If you search Ryan Holiday and stoic or stoicism, you will figure it out. Then basically after that, I will journal three things I'm grateful for, and I try to think of different categories. I'll look at novelty, write some things that are novel. The ability to wake up and choose what I do, I'm totally grateful for that. I'm totally grateful that I don't have a nine to five. This morning, usually I get up at 4:00, 4:30 every day, our dog gets us up sometimes, it drives me crazy. She usually barks about 4:00, 4:30 to be let out, because that's what time we get up for the last however long. This morning I actually let her out and I was like, look, sleep is important today. We have a nine month old baby, and I don't know if you've got kids or you've had a young baby before, but sleep is precious. Basically I went back to bed, and got a bunch more rest. Then normally I want to write down a piece of gratitude for something, obviously novelty, like I just mentioned. The clouds, the birds singing, the sun shining. Things that we take for granted totally. Usually when we write gratitude, it's I'm grateful for my life, my wife, my business, my et cetera. The next thing I want to look at is in relationships, friendships. Who am I grateful for in relationships in other areas? Friendships and with my partner, what's one thing? Or the kids. The next thing I want to do is what am I grateful for career, business wise, or success wise. A type personalities, people like probably me and you, we can get so attached to what we're looking to achieve that we forget about what we've done. We forget about where we've come from. It's so easy to get wrapped up in this future mindset, which takes us out of being present, which causes anxiety. If anxiety lives in the future, the antidote to that is gratitude in the present. That's what you've got to really understand, is part of your gratitude is bringing you back to present moment and appreciating where you are today and what you've been through and everything else to go with that. After I've done gratitude, I will write down my intentions for the day. What do I want my day to be around? I'll write usually three things. Then I'll crush demons. I've never really heard anyone talk about this before. Something I started doing when I noticed that I had basic things in my mind that were reoccurring themes. Every day if I woke up with a certain thought or feeling, I'd write that down and then I'd explore it, then I would crush it. I call these demons because they're things that reoccur and they can become nightmares if you allow them to progress. Then I'll go into breathing, and I will do 10 or 20 minutes worth of breathing and stretching at the same time. I'll do about 10 minutes of real deep breathing, like meditation stuff. Then I'll do about 10 minutes worth of deep breathing and stretching. Reason why, I just feel when your body is tense, physiology determines psychology. Not only am I going to alter my physiology with my breath, I'm going to alter my physiology physically as well. Sometimes I like to flip it, so that I'll actually do my breathing meditation stuff before I journal. Sometimes I like to do it after. It just depends on how I feel. I don't know if you've ever done meditation or something before, but sometimes we can feel it's resistance. I can, personally anyway. I can think, ah, you know what, I don't have that 20 minutes right now to do it. I'll just skip it. I've noticed, the more I do it, the better I feel. The less I do it, the more clogged up and cloudy I feel. Without clarity, we have no direction. If you have a foggy mind, then you're not going to be confident about your execution. No matter what you think, your execution isn't going to be great every day if you have a foggy mind. Basically after I've done all of that, I write down my big three rocks for the day that sits within my plan for the week. What are my big three things I've got to get done today? If I get those done, awesome. Then I end the day with wins, lessons and next day objectives. I cap off the day, wins, lessons and next day objectives, and then I go into five to 10 minutes worth of breathing, then I get in my car away from the office, blast some tunes, and just usually sing along, rap along, or just hear the music loud and just let my mind completely switch off. Like anyone, I have times and periods when I'm awesome at doing this, and I'm totally on point. Seven days a week, every day. Then I have periods where I allow the fogginess to bog me down. I feel panicky, and I've got to skip them. It's mad, because that thought is the exact reason why I need to keep the rituals in place. It's often the reason why I don't. If right now you're in business and you're waking up foggy, you're checking your phone, you're checking your emails, you've gone on Facebook, you're responding to clients, you're waking up with this mentality of, "Shit, I've got to get stuff done, I've got to get clients in, I've got to do this, that and the other." Take an extra hour. I guarantee it will change and revolutionise your life. If you have clients at 6:00 am, and you usually get up at half five, and then you're straight into the gym, guess what? You're running your day based upon whatever comes your way. Which means you have no control about how you start the day. Which means your frame of mind and your confidence for that day is set upon the very first few interactions you have with people. When I was coaching all of the time at 6:00 am, I would actually get up at 4:30 so I could spend an hour to do my morning ritual. I'd get up, get showered straight away, get a coffee, and then go into my ritual, because it was that valuable. I was willing to sacrifice an hour of sleep in the morning and go to bed an hour earlier at night to start my day in a way that empowered me with confidence, with drive, with courage, as opposed to allowing the day to rule me. Guys, if you make that shift, I guarantee your success will be 10x what it is right now. What I'm not going to pretend is that starting your day and ending your day is going to revolutionise your sales and marketing, because it's not. The only thing that will revolutionise your sales and marketing is your knowledge of sales and marketing. However, it will allow you to apply the knowledge that you have at a much higher level, which means you're going to execute with more confidence, which means that the result of your efforts are going to be 10x. You're not not making sales because you're not starting the day in a powerful way. No, that's not the case. What I'm saying is you're likely not making sales because you're not good enough at sales. It definitely effects your state going into that call if you're conscious of, "Shit, I've got clients leaving, what if this person doesn't sign up," or, "I definitely need this client to sign up." If you're in this anxious state, for sure it's going to effect how you show up in that phone call. Give yourself the very best possible chance of success by starting your day in an empowering way, and completing your day in a way that sets you up for success the next day. Let's say you had a calamity of a day today, today shit of a day. You need to be able to put a bottle top on it. You need to be able to throw that bottle in the ocean, and let it drift out to sea. If you do that every day, I guarantee you'll notice a huge shift. People around you will notice a difference in your presence too. All right, it is your boy Breezy, hope you loved this session today on morning rituals, protecting your confidence, and being able to start and end your day in a more empowering way. It's been awesome having you here. , go over right now to superfitbusiness.com/podcast, go and get the business building kit. If you have any requests about me teaching the morning ritual in a deeper way, I'd love to know. Shoot me a message. If we're not friends on Facebook, let's be friends on Facebook, that would be awesome. You can get me on there, Facebook.com/chrisb1110. We can chat on there as well, ping me a message. Happy to chat morning rituals and how personally it's revolutionised my life, but it's also something that could totally revolutionise yours too. That's it from me today. 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